[quote author=DarkTamer Steph link=topic=8218.msg100336#msg100336 date=1208899444]
Elrade, I think you've changed your name more times in your short time here than any other member. And you should change your sig. It no longer makes sense.
D'OH! Thanks for telling me
Guys... I think I'm falling in love with a girl named Ronni. She's a friend of mine and all, but we're both just teens... And me, I'm not the guy who would "do the deed" until I'm married... So, advice?
Love need not constitute sex. And is it really love, or an infatuation? Perhaps I'm a bit of a 'spoil sport', but I don't really approve of relationships of teenagers. Their brains at that stage are still developing, and even if they think they can, they might not make the best decisions in said relationships. Besides that, I've seen far too many friendships destroyed over a relationship because priorities get messed up.
If you really believe that you are falling in love, then good for you. It takes a lot of maturity to recognize the emotion in its purest form, and accept that it is indeed what your are feeling. However, this isn't really a type of thing that advice from others will help with. You have to follow your own heart and choose what the best thing to do in your situation is.
I've loved twice, and still care deeply for the people I fell for, but I chose not to divulge my feelings because they were both very close friends, and I didn't want to risk losing that friendship because we were are still teenagers. I am personally waiting until after college to pursue any sort of relationship or act on these emotions in any way, because I don't want to mess things up for myself or any others.
If this girl has an open mind and a good personality, she should have no problem with being told she is cared for, but... Eh, just be careful in the way you go about it. Sorry for being so serious about this, by the way. It's a topic I feel strongly for, as you can see.
[quote author=Eimon link=topic=8218.msg101929#msg101929 date=1209773303]
Whatever you do, don't sneak into her room while she's sleeping, highlight her hair, and put a broken heart T-shirt on her.
[/quote]Don't worry. She's a fan of Digimon, too. Heck, with that logic, I'd have to worry about her dressing me up like Vincent Valentine.
Edit: I told her I had a little crush on her, and she says she has a little crush on me! She said I'm "sweet!" But, for now, we'll just be friends.
A character from FFVII, Advent Children, his own spin-off game Dirge of Cerberus and a cameo in Crisis Core
He is one of the most popular characters in the Final Fantasy series and rival's Cloud in Popularity